AELITA COMMUNITY · Book Club

September 13, 2026, 14:00 · “Dom Arkhitektora,” Kaluga, Lenin St. 116

Open Book Club Meeting

Main stream · Book club · 18+
Katya Abdulova
Club host, co-founder and producer of AELITA PRODUCTION
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About the club

We often think we're not understood because we "explained badly", or that the other person "understands badly". Both are lies. Here we create a form in which understanding can happen.

AELITA COMMUNITY — language environment, a place where people grow into big ideas first, and then into their own — where they learn to tell their own desires from everyone else's, their fate from their parents' scripts, and closeness from economics.

You truly exist only where you think, feel, experience, want, and act unlike everyone else. There is no such thing as “everyone.” What exists are parental prescriptions, the code of Instagram*-conformity, cultural scripts... But none of that is a person.

* Instagram is a social network owned by Meta Platforms Inc., whose activities providing Instagram and Facebook within the Russian Federation have been declared extremist and are banned there.

For over 13 years Katya has been reading books and leading these meetings. A book, a film, a painting, or a play is a tool for her — you can use it, or not.

This is an open, free meeting — a first look at the format before joining the ongoing main stream.

Format

We'll spend the year reading — from psychology to philosophy and fiction — and taking on a classic question: why do people choose to be together, when they could just as easily not. The open meeting opens the season — a first look at the club's format before joining the ongoing stream.

Date and time
September 13, 2026, 14:00
Venue
“Dom Arkhitektora”
Kaluga, Lenin St. 116
Attendance
Free entry,
registration required
Age rating
18+

What we read in the main stream

The main stream’s season programme — from the psychology of family and power to the philosophy of intimacy, love and meaning, month by month.

1
“Games People Play” + “What Do You Say After You Say Hello?”
Eric Berne
September — opening the season with a shared vocabulary
2
“The Symposium”
Plato
October — where the idea of a “soulmate” came from
3
“The Russian Family, 11th–19th Centuries”
Vasily Leshchenko
November — family as an economic institution
4
“On Aggression”
Konrad Lorenz
December — the nature of aggression and possessiveness
5
“Selected Works”
Donald Woods Winnicott
January — infant experience and the capacity to trust
6
“The Father”
Luigi Zoja
February — the father archetype in psychology and religion
7
“Drugs, Addiction and Initiation”
Luigi Zoja
March — why we chase intense sensation
8
“Sex in Human Loving”
Eric Berne
April — attraction and sex as tools of manipulation
9
“Love and Fear”
Zygmunt Bauman
May — the collapse of monogamy’s outer supports
10
“Love Relations: Normality and Pathology”
Otto Kernberg
June — how to stay faithful by choice
11
“Existential Psychotherapy” (chapters on isolation, responsibility and meaning)
Irvin Yalom
July — the year’s conclusion: isolation, responsibility, meaning
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